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I just can't believe/trust myself

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by LoyalGryffindor, Mar 12, 2017.

  1. LoyalGryffindor

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    Out to everyone
    So I think I'm gay. Well, maybe I know I'm gay...I like girls, not sure if I like guys, so I just want to use gay kind of as an umbrella term. Anyways, I just can't seem to believe myself. I can't stop thinking that maybe it's a phase, or maybe I'm just confused...I just can't stop doubting my own sexuality and I don't know what to do. Advice?
     
  2. Worker Bee

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    Hey there. Try not to be too hard on yourself. Maybe try to accept you like girls without analysing what it may or may not mean for you.

    I'm guessing you may have issues with self-esteem which could be causing your self doubt.

    If you want to talk add me as a friend and post on my wall
     
  3. Ljjgreat2017

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    Take life slowly. Eventually, you'll figure your sexuality out.