Hi friends, well in case you haven't read my saga, I came out to my family in October. My wife did know, we were friends way before marriage and I was out. We've been married over 30 years. I have been planning to move out on my own since. Not just because I'm gay but I'm unhappy in our relationship. There are other issues. Well I have had a terrible time looking for a place. I will still have financial responsibilities with my family and then add new expenses. It's been overwhelming. So out of desperation I placed an add on craigslist. It was stupid to post " gay man looking to share rent..." but I did. I got some crazy responses but actually may have something even better than I imagined at the end of the month. Now how do I tell my wife its time. She's known it's coming but that won't matter. I've got a new account and have written a spending/dividing plan. I'm planning to have all my income transferred to the new account and then deposit the household money into the present family account. I want to go over this with my wife but I'm afraid she will sabotage it. It's happened before that's why I haven't left.