Hi, everyone. I'm guessing my problem is a little more common than I first thought, so I decided this was the best place to ask for advice. I would appreciate it if anyone took to time to read this, and would greatly appreciate any response. I have this friend who I made this year. She's the sister of my sister's boyfriend. We know each other because of after school activities, and we've gotten really close recently. She said I'm like a sister to her (she knows I'm transgender). She's so beautiful, smart, and kind. It's like she's able to be the most amazing person on the face of the planet without even trying. She always cares about me, and always has time to listen. I'm falling in love with her, really hard. I've had dreams about her for several days now. She can tell something is up, and asked me about it tonight. I told her that I've been having weird dreams lately, and that it's nothing to worry about. I want to tell her how I feel, but I don't want to ruin this friendship. It's one of the best things I've ever had, and I want it to last a lifetime. I'm almost certain she doesn't feel the same way, and even if she did, she wouldn't be interested in a relationship right now, she wants to focus most of her time into her class work and after school activities. I don't want my feelings to create strain on our friendship, but I fear that it already has started to. Should I tell her how I feel, or should I wait for to stop trying to find out what's wrong? Thank you in advance!