In girls' magazines there are always tips for flirting with boys, dating boys, understanding boys.. In men's magazines there are posters of sexualized women.. In TV-shows and media in general they are talking about what all the women like about men and what all the men like about women. Like, people that are attracted to their own gender wouldn't exist or are some freaks that aren't worth talking about. Yes, the majority of people is straight but there are still people that are NOT straight. We exist. We have feelings, too. Even though we are a minority there are still many of us. It makes us invisible, feel like some freaks. So, it's literally false to say that all the women like certain traits about men and vice versa because there are woman out there that are not attracted to men and men that are not attracted to woman. Even though, they are not the majority, they are still woman and men, too. There are people that don't even fit into the categories "men" or "woman". What do they think when they send those messages? Something like: "Most of people are straight, so let's ignore the people that are not. They, don't matter."? Ugh, sometimes it's even worse than homophobia because homophobic people at least notice we EXIST. That said as a homoflexible woman who is only attracted to one certain man and not at all to the rest of them. That said as a homoflexible woman with a male partner.