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I feel like I'm going to be sick

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Almost Canadian, Nov 8, 2016.

  1. Almost Canadian

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    Warning, I'm talking about a subject that's rather explicit.

    This thread relates in part to another thread I made much earlier
    http://emptyclosets.com/forum/physi...7-using-household-items-pleasure-healthy.html
    Basically in thread I asked is using household item for anal pleasure a risk to your health.
    I got quite a few responses and many were quite informative.
    This thread though was more for myself since I mentioned that I use the handle of the backscratcher in my shower for that type of sensual pleasure.
    Everyone told me it wasn't a good idea to continue and to just use fingers.
    But my fingers are way too short.
    So guess what?
    Today I used it again, but now I think I've really hurt myself.
    I know I'm an idiot.
    But to go into the specific details about the situation:

    1. The backscratcher handle is about a foot and a half long and is made of hard plastic.

    2. Since I had no lubricant, I used body wash which was probably a bad idea.

    3. I positioned it in a way were I slid down on it rather than just inserting it. Again, probably not the safest method.

    I seriously feel like I'm going to throw up.
    I've had a stomach ache ever since a couple hours ago and it's been getting worse.
    It feels as if someone just punched me in the gut.
    So I do I wait it out or get help?
     
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    GET HELP, you don't want to have an internal bleed or something more serious!
     
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    What kind of help and how fast?
    I could go to my college medical center tomorrow and ask them about it.
     
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    not a doc here, but have you passed any blood?

    ---------- Post added 9th Nov 2016 at 02:32 AM ----------

    At the very least get to your college med center in the morning.
    Be honest with them.
    DON'T use the scratcher any more!

    There are other options that are was less dangerous.
     
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    You posted an hour ago. Please update us. Do you still feel pain? Are you bleeding from your rectum?
     
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    When you get checked out come talk to me, will help figure out how to get something safe!

    ---------- Post added 9th Nov 2016 at 02:54 AM ----------

    Iamgay, I hope he didn't screw up. There is got to be a way for the boy to get a proper dildo.
     
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    Did he damage an internal organ? puncture or rupture something?

    Better safe than sorry dont take risks son if something is wrong get immediate help until you are sure you are OK. if anything is wrong its best to catch it fast - dont let it be too late.

    Hospital ERs get all sort of situations. You can ask them anything. totally fair game


    to all reading this , body wash, is soap, and not to be taken internally - through any orifice. please dont use this. thank you
     
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    We are worried! You have to let us know what is going on?
     
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    Seriously, go to an ER or some kind of urgent care. They do encounter these things, and you will not be shamed or laughed at. Your health is too important to leave to chance.
     
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    How far in did it go? Did it hurt immediately or did the pain start after awhile? Are you bleeding?

    Please seek help this could be serious.
     
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    Please do not wait it out and actually seek out help, preferably going to an ER or urgent care and be seen today. I'm not a doctor, but there is a big possibility that there is some internal bleeding, which may cause the stomach ache and nausea. It's better to be safe than risk your health.
     
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    I know it can be embarrassing and awkward, but getting help and making sure you're safe is more important than any pride you might feel. Please tell us how you get on!
     
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    I'm not going to read the other responses before posting this, but your symptoms could indeed be the harbinger of something much more serious. If you have perforated your colon, you require immediate medical attention. If you feel sick, please do not delay visiting an emergency room or a medical provider that you can see right away.

    I am sorry to have to tell you this. It will be embarrassing, yes, but this is a simple problem to fix, if you do not let it get out of control. Please seek expert attention right away.

    ---------- Post added 9th Nov 2016 at 02:01 PM ----------

    No, I am sorry. With your symptoms of nausea, etc., you need to see someone right now. If the problem is a perforated colon, your symptoms will get much worse, without immediate medical attention.
     
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    I hope you went to the emergency or an urgent care clinic - being physically ill with abdominal pain after doing what you did is not to be taken lightly. You may have done some real damage and, some possibilities are life threatening.

    Please let us know you are okay as soon as you can.
     
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    Alright alright, sorry for not responding, I was at college all day.
    I don't feel any better and woke up with a cold this morning.
    On the flip side though I did schedule a meeting with the college nurse tomorrow.
    I don't really believe there is any internal bleeding because if there was, I'd be in trouble by now.
    But I believe the stomach ache came from the fact that used body wash as a lubricant, so that must have done something to my prostate to make me feel like shit.
    Again, sorry for not responding quick enough.

    ---------- Post added 9th Nov 2016 at 05:33 PM ----------

    It's a backstratcher handle about a foot and a half long.
    I got it in about half way through until I... "hit a wall" if I can phrase it that way.

    ---------- Post added 9th Nov 2016 at 05:34 PM ----------

    That last post was in response to this quote.
     
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    I hope you are okay. Is there a way for you to purchase a sex toy and lubricant? I know it's embarassing but there must be other gentlemen here who can help you find a proper toy and lubricant.

    Please keep us updated
     
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    So you are worried about your parents finding a toy, finding out you are bi, buying and hiding the toy, or all of the above? I was the master of finding places to hide my porn mags when I was your age. Before the internet. Maybe I can help you figure out what to do so you don't have to risk injury using the "scratcher" or anything else in the house?

    The real toys feel so much better and are so much safer! I/we were very worried about you!

    Dean
     
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    Thanks for getting back to us. Obviously a lot of us were worried about you.

    Yes, be aware that any chemicals you introduce into your colon can be absorbed into your system. Many nutrients in fact are absorbed this way.

    I think you should take John Deere up on his offer. Any older guy has plenty of experience hiding porn and other contraband from his parents, before computers were invented. Or, you can ask any recovering alcoholic--they are masters at hiding booze.

    In any case, there are plenty of recipes on line for safe lubricants you can make yourself. One that is quite easy to make but that is not compatible with condoms involves a recipe with wax, mineral oil, and petroleum jelly (petrolatum). Other similar products are available that have multiple "uses" but that are safe for this kind of use. So yes, you can make a safe, homemade lube that needn't attract attention, but you also can buy sexual lube and put it in another container.

    I'm sure there are many other household items or materials that "would" be safe for such use, but you'll have to do more of your own research on this. In any case, the ingenuity of those familiar with hiding porn in the 1960's can't be beat--consult johndeere for more creative ideas.

    Anyway, I'm glad you're still with us. I know I'm not going to talk you out of these experiments in the future, but what I can suggest is that you do some research on these things when you're not horny--plan ahead, and stay safe.
     
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    Hold on now faustian, the late 1980's not the 1960s....LOL :slight_smile:
     
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    :roflmao:

    Be patient. There'll be time....