I am the only one? Only educated, attractive, intelligent, funny, and single lesbian left that is not in her freakin' 20s. No offense if you are. I have found that I prefer someone more my own age. Well, obviously I do not have self esteem issues. haha. Seriously though, I am not one for bars, not doing well on dating sites at all, closeted because I have to be, and feel as though I am the only one. Please someone - tell me I am wrong. I want friends that are like me! I am the gay one in my bunch. They know and keep my secret. Their advice on how to get women - atrocious. They are sweet though - they care.