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I am gay (LBT) but I...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PatrickUK, Oct 19, 2017.

  1. Crisalide

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    I'm non-hetero and non-cis but I don't get offended if someone talks to me in a little politically incorrect way because they're cis/het and aren't familiar with the matter. I'm not made of glass nor a touchy left-wing polemist.
     
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    I think everyone should listen to this! Good one, BothWaysSecret!


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    Im gay but that doesnt mean I want to be a woman. Sexual orientation =/= gender identity
     
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    I'm gay, but I have two poodles.
     
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    Thank you GreenRanger! Also, long time no see.
     
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    I'm bisexual.
    No, you can't watch. No, I don't want a threesome with you and your girl/boyfriend. No, I will not cheat on my partner.

    And while we're at it: I'm a self-proclaimed tomboy, and I don't like shopping/makeup/heels/frilly girly clothes/long nails or nail polish
     
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    I'm a lesbian but I'm a feminine woman, attracted to feminine women.
     
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    I'm bisexual and am monogamous/morally opposed to cheating of any type.
    I'm bisexual and I freely admit that my sexual orientation spectrum is not 50-50 (it's around 60-40 male to female)
    I'm bisexual and I want to be in a long-term relationship
    I'm a bisexual who is uncomfortable with the idea of overexposure to casual sex
    I'm bisexual and have only had sexual relations with one person in my life

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    I'm an LGBT millennial who is, sadly, still in the closet to most people (outside of my fraternity and sister)
     
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    I was just going to say the same thing. I can't stand how overly sensitive our community is at times.

    If they aren't full of hatred, I find it quite fun to answer questions. Snapping at them never helps.
     
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    I am an LGBT person, but I don't hate straight people nor do I think they are less understanding than other LGBT people. I have met straight women (and men) who were very accepting, and who laughed with me when I told them about a ignorant statement someone said. I have also met LGBT people who were very hateful toward me or tried to put me in a box I didn't belong in. I don't prioritize LGBT friendships, I just want someone understanding who clicks with me. And many times, these people are hetero.
     
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    i'm nb but i'm not androgynous. i'm actually pretty feminine and i like it that way! that doesn't make me a girl c:
     
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    I'm mlm but I'm terrible at sassy comebacks. I have also never seen a season of RuPaul's Drag Race. These may or may not be related. (Although I might watch it if it was on Netflix).
     
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    I am gay, but my voice is not feminine (but it's okay if yours is).
     
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    I'm gay, but I don't like shopping clothes at all (unless I'm about to buy a T-shirt or hoodie of one of my favorite bands), I cannot say I have considerably more female friends than male friends, I'm terrible at cooking (although I would like to improve) and sometimes I think I'm more masculine than some of my straight male friends.
     
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    I'm bisexual and I've never cheated on a partner just because I like boys and girls or anyone. I've never shared anything sexually with anyone unless there was a connection or relationship together
     
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    I can't really think of any non LGBT stereotypes about myself. I'm very quite feminine and whiny. My voice is high and I like a lot of feminine and gay things.

    I mean I like R&B and Hip Hop and Jazz disco music and tennis and gymnastics and hip hop dancing? Is that non gay? Smh.