After being together for almost 6 years I’m going to come out to my fiancé. I can’t stand hiding who I am and I know it’s only going to be worse the longer I wait now. There is no good time. We have two amazing children and our lives are engulfed in each other and I feel terrible I’m going to uproot it all but she deserves the truth. I feel like I’ve been holding my breath and I just need to be able to breath. I’m not doing anyone favors pretending to be who I’m not. I just hope she doesn’t try and cut me off. I need her friendship and I need my kids.
Good luck! As long as you’re on the birth certificates and everything else is ok, then I don’t see how she can stop you from seeing your children. As for her friendship, I guess that’s down to her. It might be a bumpy road, but I hope you can find a way forward and work together as parents.