hey girls and boys . i like to know how being LGBT effected in your life in family , school ,work and in society you live in . i like to learn from your experience . i start with myself . i live in Iran and here LGBT is not allowed and penalty could be quick death . so as gay i can never come out , i cant talk to people at all about it . there is no any gay club or LGBT community or any pride . you should keep it as secret so in family or work there is no reaction about it except , always people saying : why don't you marry with a good girl ? the effect of being gay in my life is im still single and i never had sex or any relationship with a boy like me and it feels awkward like i trying to find a boyfriend in other planet ,living between people i don't belong too , living in upside down and no one can see it but only i can .i love myself and being a gay gave's me hope to look forward to better future .