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How to talk to this person you're attracted to.

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  1. Anon1201

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    Also forgot to ask, but have you noticed any major like flirtation signs/ approach me signs that are very obvious? Or that I should watch for? I noticed the eye contact but anything else?
     
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    I think they are the main ones that people can do from afar. Once you get talking maybe it might be in the things she says or maybe if she touches you or something but one step at a time.
     
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    Pretty nervous to try and talk to her today :joy:.
     
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    You can do it. Just imagine you are talking to a friend. Ask her how her Saturdays was or something if you don't know what to say. Or like we British people do, talk about the weather haha. You will be great trust me.
     
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    So sadly we did not have much time to try to engage in a conversation today, but I was like waiting for a moment and we were busy working. Sounds like an excuse, but I think like seeing today I fee like she is just a friendly person that is comfortable around everyone. So she probably sees I'm shy and doesn't force being friendly. Anyways probably just work at being friends. :shrug: If she wants us looking for more than friends or not, at least I got a new friend.
     
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    I don't think it's an excuse sometimes especially at work you don't get a chance. I think you just need to try and become better friends because then it will become clearer as to whether sh likes you more than friends or not
     
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    Yea, there was a bit of time to talk to her yesterday but she was with one of her friends and I didn't want to approach the both of them. I'll eventually find time to get to know her hopefully.
     
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    I get that. Don't put too much pressure on yourself :slight_smile:
     
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    So we talked for a bit at work yesterday. She approached me while I was working which I was surprised cause she never does. It was pretty busy, but I felt a lot more at ease talking this time than before.
     
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    Yay. Good work. One small step at a time.
     
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    Honestly I am feeling a bit confused about everything. I never realized how difficult it was to know if a woman is interested. :sweat_smile:
     
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    Yeah it can be tough but the best thing to do is take it a step at a time and try and enjoy and build a friendship and then anything else is a bonus.
     
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    I talked to her again the other day. When we sat down during lunch and talked a bit about work and I was trying to look for hints lol. Like I know I'm over analyzing everything but I can't tell if this move is to distant herself or seem like she is closer to me. I sat down like a bit away from her and she had legs crossed and then she uncrossed them facing her feet toward me. (Sitting on the floor not chair) while we were talking she was like stretching reaching for her feet. I mean of course I was checking her out as she does:smirk:. I can tell she was looking toward me cause I was looking but my hat covers my eyes. I'm all over the place and I overthink lol.
     
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    I wish I could tell you for sure but it's just too hard to say. Just getting to know her better is the best thing to do
     
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    Alright thank you! Sorry this forum also helps me vent my thoughts:sweat_smile:
     
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    Don't be sorry write as many posts as you like. I'm just sorry I don't have a better answer.
     
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    That's alright! It's nice to just share things and someone listens! Also you've helped more than you think. I have talked to her a bit more than I ever had before making this forum post. :slight_smile: Although I still don't know where things will go, I am at least happy that I can talk to her.
     
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    And even if talking to her never leads to anything it will be great experience moving forward.
     
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    So pretty sure she's straight. Do lesbians wear Victoria Secret often? lol kinda sad but that's cool. :joy:
     
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    I have no idea I'm sure there are some that do.
     
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