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How to let a guy know you're into him?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Robishere, Apr 8, 2018.

  1. Maddox232003

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    Me 2 XD.
     
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    I could die from jealousy when he will tell us the first kiss episode
     
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    Agree completely.
     
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    Wow, I envy you. It is quite obvious he genuinely likes you. Maybe he is very very very shy person and socially awkward. As for avoiding you sometimes, maybe he was having an off day?

    I had a crush on a guy in college. My friend and I were walking to the lab, he was also going in the same direction and was behind me. I was quite anxious and I wanted to get away, but tried to play it cool. I didn’t notice the signboard in front of me and walked right into it. And my dear friend made the matter worst by grabbing my head and started vigorously rubbing at the spot. My hair resembled a bird’s nest after she was finished.

    What I am trying to convey is maybe he was having a bad day and he didn’t want to embarrass himself, so he tried not to risk talking to you. But looks like he is gaining confidence.

    How about leaving cute encouraging messages on his coffee cup? Different versions of have a nice day. And if he comes with his co workers, leave message only on his cup ?

    All the best in your endeavours.
     
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    Oh lord... I guess we are like the friend that is waiting for the juicy details of someone's else date. And a side note that we are not his friends at all. Just complete stranger on the internet XD.
     
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  6. Federico98

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    Yeah but I think 'we' helped him and gave him some suggestions. We'd be happy if this story will have a nice ending
     
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  7. Robishere

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    Okay so it's been 2 days since he gave me his number and we've been texting on and off since then and getting to know each other a bit! Today he was talking about this hangout spot near his university where people go to drink, dance, and pretty much just have a nice time and he invited me to go with him this Friday! I AM FREAKING OUT!! Nothing like this has ever happened to me before so I really want to thank every single person who took the time to leave some words of advice for a shy little gay boy with a crush, they were all incredibly useful. Words can't really express how grateful I am for all your helpful tips.

    You all seem to be super interested and hooked on this thread so I'll make sure to let you guys know how everything goes! Once again, THANK YOU ALL!! :blue_heart::smile:
     
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    Aww you are so sweet
     
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    Great news. Have a great time Friday and enjoy yourself. :slight_smile:
     
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    No problem helping. Just tell us the juicy bits will ya? XD
     
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    You're so greedy
     
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    Nah. Just kind of being interested in... Affairs... XD
     
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    We need an update. :anguished:
     
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    Not sure if anyone still cares, but I just remembered I made this thread! I feel bad for leaving you guys in limbo all this time and even though it's been almost a year, this deserves to be properly concluded.

    Basically, me and the wonderful guy this whole thread was about went out that Friday night and it went great! We kept talking and hanging out, went to the movies, dinner. It was a total of around 5 dates plus seeing each other at work really often. Unfortunately as each date passed we kind of started noticing how completely different we were. Yes, both gay and attracted to each other... but as people, we were just on completely opposite sides of every spectrum. It really started feeling like despite our mutual attraction, we were incompatible and our conversations would always be sort of bland. After those 5 dates we kept seeing each other at work and ironically a few weeks after that they forcefully shut down the Cafe I worked at and they opened a new one at another location. I'm not even working with them anymore so me and George slowly drifted and stopped talking. I do hope he's doing well, he's still a great person.
     
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    Thanks for the update! I never thought I'd see the ending to your story. Much appreciated and good luck to you! :hand_splayed: