how to introduce an older boyfriend to your family

Well first, how old are you?

 

Ya, that would be a big question.

 

First question i would ask is: How much lieing can you get away with if you try and mask his age? and How accpeting are your parents on a scale of 1 to GTFO?

 

Yes how old are you?!

 

I was in the same situation and I just told them.
After coming out, everything else seemed so easy.

 

"Mom? Dad? This is Gerald."

Not "Mom? Dad? This is Gerald, my top."

Lex

 

Oh Lex. You get the finger for that reply. :roflmao: :eusa_naug

 

Don't. ever. ever, tell your parents your role in bed. As a matter of fact don't even let them know you have sex.

That's just cruel. If they wanna wonder, let em', but DON'T. EVER. IMPLY. JACK. SHIT. Most of the time they really don't want to know.

but ya, how old are we talkin' here? You have yet to say. If you're not in your twenties, their may be more important things to discuss.

 

You: Mom Dad this is my boyfriend Tony.....

Dad: Dint we went to high school together?

 

How do you introduce him?

The same way you'd introduce anyone else.

So, if you're one that would say, "Mom, Dad, this is Gerald, my top," well, don't do that anymore!

 

lol. wow just reading all the comments was kind of funny ^^^^. lol.
ok *serious face* now the way way WAY importanto thing is ur age. cuz if ur in high school ur parents r obviously gonna b concerned. but i dont think ur in high school.(are you?)
so just introduce him the way u do anyone else "hi mom, hi dad. id lik you to mean *insert name here*. hes my boyfriend(? if u wanna say tat)"

 

Hmmm... I am not sure how great that would go... But I think they will understand if you tell them that you are in love with him and that he treats you good. Parents always want to be overprotective and make sure you are safe and doing the right thing.

Good Luck!

 

Yes, parents are protective. But I do have to point out that the mind of a 45 year old man is far, far different from that of a men our age.

a word of caution, I have been taken advantage of by older men a number of times, and it showed me that a mature, middle-aged man is going to look for a mature, middle-aged man and not shop around for newer models. That and...

When you turn his age... he'll be drawing social security. he's probably only about 7 or 8 years out from the blue pills.

like I said, if he's what you really want, shout it to the world and be proud of it. But keep that stuff in mind.