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How to give head/ a blow job

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by BlueWhale33, Feb 28, 2022.

  1. hopefulB

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    Absolutely 100% agree. I used to dread the obligation of sex with a girlfriend. And had to force myself not to think of men while engaging in it. Giving head feels like more of an act of worship.
     
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    I will take great pride in being regarded as a c-sucker. haha
     
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    True enough in my case. In my experience, even an inexperienced teenager fumbling around for the first time instinctively knew what to do than an experienced woman did.
     
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    Try to avoid having your teeth touch his penis as much as possible. It can be quite uncomfortable or even hurt the guy receiving the blowjob. Using your tongue is important too. If you use it properly, you will be able to give better head.

    As @PatrickUK said, communication is also super important. Some guys like it slow while some don't. Some guys like it sloppy while some may not. Some guys will like you to use your hands at the same time, etc....

    However, it's also about what you like as well. For example, swallowing, receiving a facial, and so on, should all be up to you to decide.
     
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    I totally relate. When I gave my first blowjob, I couldn't get enough. Something about it drives me crazier (in a good way) than anything else in this entire world. It's definitely my favorite sexual act when it comes to sex with men and may just be the primary reason I'm bisexual.
     
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    I'd love to try it, too. Not sure if it's in the cards, though.

    I wondered about this. I feel like instincts will get me at least part of the way there if I ever get to try.
     
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    I am by no means and we are talking many years ago and two teenage boys messing around, but a lot was instinctual.
     
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    I assumed that, but thanks for the clarification. It does just make sense, though, in any case.
     
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    Nice!
     
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    It’s a wonderful feeling for sure
     
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    I agree….no women
     
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    I bet it was natural and you knew instinctively exactly what to do to give him pleasure...not to mention the pleasure on your side…
     
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    I've also never given head to a man but my wife and I were talking about it extensively last night as I really want to and she is leaning towards letting me go forward with it. Her advice was do to them what I like done to me which I feel is pretty solid advice.