If you have something about you that is abnormal(not orientation) that is tearing apart your marriage and ruining your life, how do you fix it? My therapist and several websites and people on here have all told me that I cannot change this thing about myself but I cannot accept that. I am tired of being a problem. This problem with me isn't my identity, just something went a little wrong in my head when I was a kid. I just want to fix it. I know if I can fix it everything will be alright.