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How to find a girlfriend? If you're shy?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ReneeSparks, Jun 15, 2017.

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  1. ReneeSparks

    ReneeSparks
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    Yes I'm of age,

    I've been wanting to find a girlfriend for a while now but dating sites scare me with all those strangers you have no idea who you're taking to. And there aren't any lesbians bars where I am. The school I go to doesn't have any lgbt clubs or whatever you call them. Not sure what to do.
    (I know some say meet though friends but I don't have any at the moment don't ask why)
     
    #1 ReneeSparks, Jun 15, 2017
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    Could you wear a pride bracelet to suggest to people that you are lgbt? You said dating sites scare you, do you feel the same about dating apps? I've been on a few lesbian dates, and I'm currently dating a girl, and I met them all through apps. No obligation to meet up with anyone from them, or give any info you dont want to.
     
    #2 laviedadele, Jun 16, 2017
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    #3 Chiroptera, Jun 16, 2017
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    Shyness is something that can be overcome, and it starts by taking the initiative. You say you don't even have any friends, and you really need to work on starting to do that, as well. I don't know if you're in college, but there are a lot of LGBT people there (even without clubs), so the more people you meet, the bigger the chances.
     
    #4 Creativemind, Jun 16, 2017
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