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How to explain to my wife

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Sundara, Sep 21, 2018.

  1. Sundara

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    I know this guy only one month. He is from thousands miles away and younger than me. One day I asked if he can help me to open jailbreak my iPhone because I bought it in his country. The iphone cannot work in my country but he answered that he did not know about it. I was hoping he can help me to come to a phone counter and open the jailbreak. Here in my country it is very expensive. One week ago he asked my address and I gave him without suspicious because I was really busy and without asked what you will do with my address.
    Today on my birthday day, he sent me message that he sent me the product I asked for which he said no jailbreak. He never know my birthday too.
    I am really nervous now, if the product coming to my house, what I should say to my wife?
    He knows me I am married.
     
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    Hi Sundara-
    I'm missing something. Why is it a problem that the phone is sent to your home?
     
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    When I checked the shipment tracking, he sent me not only phone but some product of Apple and gifts.
    I don't know how to do.
    Should I lie to my wife that I get prize from somewhere?
     
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    I see. I depends on what the gifts are. It would be best to be as close to the truth as possible. Perhaps you could say the gifts are from an acquaintance you befriended in your travels? There are probably cultural issues that I don't know about.
    =Sevn