Ok, so I'm newly out as bi to my husband (and 2 good friends). And he's amazingly, surprisingly cool with me pursuing women! Yay for that. Which begs the question of: HOW? Honestly, it's what kept me from dating women in college. I never understood how to tell if a woman likes other women! Without straight out asking, I guess, which seems terrifying. I felt like there was some secret code I'd never been privy to. Nowhere near as shy now as I was then, but still. Also, we live in a tiny town in a rural area. Also, I'd be quite interested in ladies who maybe aren't necessarily loud and proud either... seems like I'm mostly attracted to other moms around my age. Who seem mostly straight, of course! But I'm willing to bet there's a lot of others out there with unexplored desires. How the heck do I find them? Thanks in advance if anyone has any magic solutions... guess I'm just hoping?