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How to approach people with very little experience?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by bi dystopia, Aug 26, 2019.

  1. bi dystopia

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    Bisexual
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    Hi,

    I seem to be having several issues in meeting up with people due to having very little experience. You talk to people on ###### and they all seem to approach you as though you are a well-oiled fucking machine with years of experience and thousands of conquests.

    I have been with very few people overall for my age (28) and have not had sex in a few years and it seems very daunting jumping straight into the world of anonymous and thoughtless sex, which lets face it is what everyone else wants, that I will have to put up with or feign interest in in order to get a boyfriend.
    At the same time, I am very conscious of letting people down or wasting people's time - so I don't really know how to approach people in saying I have little experience, am a little awkward and don't really know what I'm doing.

    Also, because I'm bisexual, I've had people object to me on those grounds before, saying I sound way too complicated and a time waster because I am not gay and have had most of my sexual experience with women.

    Thoughts?