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How should it be?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Marierose, May 21, 2018.

  1. Marierose

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    I don't think I would be happy now that my girl crush, who is also my friend knew that I was bisexual. She found out because of my another friend who just accidentally knew because I act too obvious on a play. But I told her not to tell anyone. I felt sort of betrayal and also I think it's good that she knows? I don't know. Coming out is still an issue for me.
     
  2. LostInDaydreams

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    I think it's perfectly understandable to feel both those things at once. Perhaps you're feeling relieved that she knows without you needing to tell her? Either way, it's still not OK for your other friend to have told her on your behalf. Has she apologised? How did your crush react?
     
  3. Marierose

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    She didn't. I didn't talk further about it but my girl crush pretends she doesn't know anything but always slips her tongue. HAHAHA