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How Shallow Are You ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by joshy the queen, Oct 2, 2016.

  1. Ruby Dragon

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    Ultimately, I don't fall for looks, I fall for personality. Sure, it helps if the person is attractive, or even just average. But I've dated guys that were seen by others as ugly, and I didn't care what they said. They are not the ones dating those people - I am! So yeah, I don't think I'm shallow. Beauty fades, but a beautiful soul will always be a beautiful soul :grin: :kiss:
     
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    Only if they are tall and hairy...
     
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    I'm hella shallow but my interests are kinda unconventional. Then again, if they're a total dick, and was once physically attracted, that goes out the window.

    I don't think I could completely ignore how they look but maybe if they were really interesting it'd be easier.
     
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    It doesn't matter what they look like on the outside! The inside matters the most! (*hug*)
     
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    I don't understand how it ever became "shallow" to need to be attracted to a potential partner to consider initiating a relationship.
     
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    nah.
    I'm demiromantic, which means I can fall in love with someone only after developing strong bonds with them. and to develop bonds, you need to know someone's personality.
    once I develop such bond, the person automatically becomes beautiful to me, regardless of their actual looks.
     
  7. MaoKingofcats

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    Nah I really don't care much about looks but it depends on their personality for me to be attracted to them

    ---------- Post added 15th Mar 2017 at 12:47 PM ----------

    Yes nicely said! :eusa_clap
     
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    If I was set up on a blind date and she wasn't attractive..dang, It really depends on which features make her "ugly" there are mildly ugly things..but then theres like....damn.

    I will say that..my current crush, I originally didn't think she was attractive at all, and even now I can't say that she's "amazing" looking, but I do like her...a lot, if she were to ask me out I'd say yes in a heartbeat, because I've really gotten to know her the past year or so. However, if it were a blind date and they weren't just "hideous" I would try to give them a chance to get to see their personality, so I'd finish the date and maybe even have a couple of more dates with them, because the more you warm up to someone and get used to them I think the less ugly they become
     
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    Ok, I'm a little shallow. I do want someone good looking, but if they're a total are, then no, I wouldn't date them.