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How real is bottom shaming?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by CuriousLad, Jul 9, 2018.

  1. Biguy45

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    My wife knows about a lot of my fetishes. She participated in a few and sort of ignores the rest
     
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    Okay stop you're making marriage sound more and more attractive to me even though I've upheld my Kindergarten pledge to bachelordom all this while

    Just joking, she seems really nice though. Maybe she won't have a problem with you coming out
     
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    Yeah I’m not sure about that. As long as I’m not acting on it, I’m fine staying in the closet
     
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    Sure if you're comfortable. It's not like you can't indulge her romantically and sexually so you don't need to bother. Sometimes I think the whole coming out process is a tad clichéd too. I mean by definition it's to let people know you're someone they never thought you were. So it's voluntary and not some prerequisite to queer bliss or anything.
     
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    If I were gay and miserable, then I think it would be necessary. I’m my case, it’s absolutely no hardship to remain in the closet. Sure, I fantasize about being with men sometimes, and I come to this site to talk about it, but the urges aren’t overwhelming