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How often would you masturbate

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by earthguy, Apr 6, 2018.

  1. earthguy

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    I wondering how often would you masturbate?
     
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    Is there a particular reason for the question?
     
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    I know it a personal question but I think I masturbate to often.
     
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    It is a personal question, but people are usually willing to answer if there is some context to the question... and now you've provided it. :slight_smile:

    I imagine many guys masturbate daily and some more often than daily. It's certainly not unusual for younger guys to masturbate 2, 3 or 4 times a day.
     
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    Currently - maybe like twice a week since I have a boyfriend and don't really need to anymore.

    When I was single - at least daily, usually more like 3 times a day. The record was 15 in a day (I don't recommend this and it hurts after awhile, I was just really curious what my limit was).
     
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    How on earth would you find the time to do that?
     
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    It was during Summer break in high school, so I literally had all day to dedicate to it with nothing else needing to get done. I was really bored that day I guess haha.
     
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    Sounds like you were extremely bored. I could never do that.
     
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    I still feel dirty if I masturbate - well afterwards. I know that is silly. And yet afterwards I will still always feel dirty. So, on the whole it's easier for me not to do it. I do notice that I start getting more tense after two or three weeks of not masturbating. But sooner or later that dissipates.

    Overall I feel much better when I don't masturbate. It seems to me that me super ego or something else much prefers me not to masturbate. And yet I think my ego likes me to masturbate. As for my id - it seems to want sex or masturbation... Well, I think my id demands sex but my ego wants sex or masturbation. I'm not sure what it is with me.
     
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    As a rule it is daily as I don't have a partner at the moment, but I think even when I last was with someone I still did fairly often but not every day. The longest I've gone without was about 10 days last summer when some friends were trying to do a group one of those 90 days nofap things and I failed miserably. I think I figured it shouldnt count if I just used my dildo rather than my penis, as my friends were all straight, but having never gone 10 days before I ended up making a terrible mess, passing out and undoing any of the good the 10 days had achieved. I'm currently 4 days into a new challenge.

    I think more than once or twice a day is too much really, but it depends on how it's impacting your health. Remember to stay hydrated and eat lots of replacement protein.
     
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    Usually 4-7 times a week. When I was a teen easily every day, sometimes more than once. In eighth grade I had gym in the morning, which would get me going all day, and I have to go to the bathroom and quickly take care of my self before football because I didn't want to walk around the locker room with a raging hard on. Then go at when I got home to relieve the tension from being with all those cute naked boys in the locker room after practice, and sometimes in the morning beforehand thinking about what the day had waiting for me. Soon after the old hormones settled a bit and I slowed down a little bit. If you are not physically hurting yourself, and the need to masturbate isn't interfering with the functioning of your life, you should be fine. IMO.
     
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    I would masturbate two or three times a day.
     
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    It depends on my exercise, going to the gym and aerobic make me hot and sometime 2 or two times a day. But if I lazy once for 3 days.
     
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    It just depends on if the mood strikes I guess, but I'd say I average once a day. Sometimes twice, but usually not more than that, and I often find I go a few days without doing it.
     
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    I'm kind of interesting because I didn't start masturbating until I was 21, guess I'm a late bloomer. At that point I did it about twice a day. I'm 24 now and now do it about once a day, I guess the initial thrill wore off. I don't have a partner. I'm female, I think men do it more.
     
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    I’m usually a once a day type of girl. Although sometimes I can go a few days and not even notice that I haven’t done it. It just happens like that on occasion.
    Personally I think it’s healthy. It can get the imagination going and keeps you in touch with yourself (excuse the pun lol). But also it helps you to understand what you like because if you don’t know what you like then how can expect anyone else to...
     
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    I’m usually 3 or 4 times a week. Usually in the shower. Sometimes I get my butt toys out when I have more time to spend on it
     
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    Mostly daily...

    Funny story- I came (no pun) from a strong Catholic family, my mother thought she was next in line to be pope. When I was a teen I thought I should give up masturbation since it was an evil sin. I’m not sure where this rule came from, but we could always indulge in our sacrifice on Sundays during lent because they were exempted. So if you gave up candy, you could eat candy on Sundays. Let’s just say that I had plenty of “alone” time on Sundays!!!

    I left the church after high school and have no guilt about self pleasure. Besides, when I think about it what was I going to say when I reached the pearly gates and was asked why I should get to go to Heaven? “Well, God or Saint Peter.... I gave up cranking it in the 9th grade for lent... that should get me into Heaven!”
     
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    Anywhere from once a day to a few times a week.
     
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    I think if your a single guy you would masturbate more often.

    Thanks for all your reply.