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How often do you want sex?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Dreamsexul, Dec 18, 2019.

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If you could, how often would you have sex?

  1. Never

    4 vote(s)
    7.1%
  2. Hardly ever

    5 vote(s)
    8.9%
  3. Couple of times a month

    3 vote(s)
    5.4%
  4. Every week

    4 vote(s)
    7.1%
  5. Couple of times a week

    14 vote(s)
    25.0%
  6. Every day

    12 vote(s)
    21.4%
  7. Twice a day

    1 vote(s)
    1.8%
  8. Multiple times a day

    13 vote(s)
    23.2%
  1. Regaen

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    Never. To me, the physical act of sex with another person is... Somewhere between 'spider in my hair' and 'i just swallowed a cockroach' on the ick meter. Where it concerns myself. I still watch, but getting involved is such a turn off...
     
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    Almost every day. There are days I don't want it and there are days when I'd rather just take care of it myself, but most days I'd like it
     
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    It just depends on the mood really. Personally I would say I have a sort of high libido. Definitely higher than my girlfriend, lol. I wouldn't mind having sex a few times a week if my partner wanted to, but then if not I also don't mind not having sex, because to me that's not at all the main part of a relationship. I also agree with what others said I do not like it if it feels like a chore. I like to lead up to sex with foreplay, and I also like changing things up given that my partner is down so things don't get boring. I also don't solely define myself as dominate or submissive I enjoy the acts of both.
     
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    Depends on mood indeed, but usually once or twice per week.
     
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    I put every day, but I guess I meant more most days. Having been in a ldr, sex only a handful of times a month does not at all work for me. It was worth it at the time, but this is mainly the reason I wouldn't do long distance again.
     
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    Enough to be frustrated, not enough to go out looking for it
     
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    With my girlfriend twice per week.. with my boyfriend as much as possible..
     
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    Clever answer. I like! :slight_smile:

    I think there needs to be a bit of longing/yearning for it and if it's just available "on tap", you kind of lose something. Even if you can have it everyday or every other day, you probably shouldn't. Let the desire build a bit.
     
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    Me and my partner average to get down to business about once a week. Sometimes twice. We have different work schedules so sometimes it’s hard to find the time.