How do you *feel* a certain gender? This might not be a fair question. It might be like asking how your perceive orange. Or how do you know when it's time to breathe. Or blink. I don't know. My trans son said he's male 80% of the time and nothing 20%. I don't understand. I was born male. I have no idea what it means to feel female. How does he know what it means to feel male? What does it mean to feel agender? I hope I'm phrasing these questions in a way that is not offensive. It might be like trying to ask a fish what it feels like to breathe while swimming underwater.