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How do I get a binder secretly?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by A Random, Nov 14, 2018.

  1. A Random

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    I really want to get a binder, but I can’t as my parents are slightly overprotective and don’t let me buy things online without their permission and I don’t know any shops that sell them. I’ve also tried diy ones, but I don’t think they don’t work very well for me...
    Any suggestions?
     
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    Can you send it to a friends house and have them give it to you at school?
     
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    You can buy a compression sports bra and say it's for sport.
     
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    One of my friends bought mine, gave it to a different friend who gave it to a friend on my school bus who gave it to me. It’s possible it might take more people but you can still get one through other people.

    Before I got a binder I wore two sports bras - one backwards - and it got me nearly as flat as my binder does only far less comfortably (I’m a 34DD for reference)
     
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    I would, but I'm not out to any of my friends...
     
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    I'm not out to anyone yet, and currently I do wear two sports bras, but they don't make my chest completely flat and i'm really self conscious about it, but I don't know what else I can do...