I have HOCD. I seem to be gayish and asexual-ish. HOCD is bad enough on its own. I can easily deal with guys who just straight up hit on me. I have more trouble with guys who “befriend” me, but act kind of flirty with me. How do I deal with them? My HOCD really goes crazy and I end up sending those guys mixed messages and they end up going crazy and stalkerish.