I live in rural middle of nowhere, so I don't think it's in the cards for me personally at the moment. Which is a shame because I'd like it to be. Dating apps have been disappointing, it's always a shame when I enjoy talking to someone and then she just stops after I ask her if she wants to meet up. Especially if they end up being a catfish, then it's even more disappointing. I do, at times, wonder if the only way to meet someone is to agree to hook-ups, but I don't really want that. The idea of acting physical with someone I don't really know doesn't appeal to me. Of course it's OK if that appeals to you. Some people just...have a safe energy to them that I can't quite explain. It's nice when I find that. When you feel like you can relax and are drawn to them. Really I know I should let go of the idea of searching for a long-term situation, that I should be more spontaneous, but it can be difficult to not overthink it all. Such as wondering how I'll know if I like a person or if I just want to be with them for the sake of having a girlfriend. I sort of wish it was more common place to kiss strangers without the added expectation that you'll hook-up. You know? It would just be nice to kiss someone without jumping to sex. I wouldn't consider myself asexual, but physical contact is a big deal for me. Consider it immature, but that's just how it is. I'm an easily flustered mess who feels behind. With all that said, how did you meet your SO?