I worry about what people think about me being a lesbian mostly that they will not believe me because I'm femme or lipstick lesbian if you will . I constantly hear my parents say like guys can turn lesbians straight or bi with sex and Some straight guys are less likely to believe you when you say your lesbian and your femme and in some cases they will believe your lesbian but get close to you as in friend in hopes that they can sleep with you or turn you . I wish I could be like other lesbians and not care what people think about me being gay or who believes me or not . I recently learned that I'm a lesbian 4months ago I hadn't spend much time you know as my true sexuality if that makes sense . Is this normal for me to be worried what people think of me . I've never dated anyone of the same sex either . except like online relationships which were long distance . I will i ever be as confident as other lesbian in my sexuality where what my parents say or ignorant straight guys say won't bother me anymore I want to feel that way but I can't help but worry what people would think of me wish I could not care what people think .