(sorry this is long) i have a friend who has said homophobic things in the past to me and we always got into arguments about it. our other friends didn't like us fighting (they said i shouldn't care what her "political beliefs" are) and im always forced to make up with her. recently my friend told me she saw my friend like a picture on instagram about a lesbian who prayed to God to help her and God eventually "turned her straight" because she was wrong/bad for being gay. i can't bring it up because 1) i wasn't there to see it 2) i really hate starting drama with her 3) i have no way to prove it. but it bothers me so much. to me, gay rights are not just part of my political opinion, they're my life. i don't have a choice to support them or not like she does. i find it so disrespectful that she thinks she can have these hurtful opinions and expect me to continue to be friends with her. i just don't know what to do anymore. i am exhausted trying to get to her all the time. i can't quit being friends with her because ive tried it before and the rest of our friends get mad at me. i also don't want them to have to choose between us. at the end of the day it just hurts my feelings and i don't know what to do.