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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by EdSure, Sep 25, 2020.

  1. EdSure

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    Hi there. I’m in my early 40’s, married with kids and have been questioning my identity for the past two years. My wife just discovered this and we’re dealing with what this means for us. I’m grateful for this site and learning from others who have gone through this. Thanks for listening.
     
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    Hi,

    I am also new here. But I have been doing things that are "out of the norms" for quite a while. I enjoy it. Feels like exhale.

    Sorry to hear about your marriage troubles. I hope your wife would have an open mind and be accepting.
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC.

    I’m sorry that you’re in this situation. You have come to the right place though, because they are plenty of people on EC who are or have been in a similar position. Take a look around the forum and at the “Later in Life” sub forum especially.

    I hope you find the support you’re seeking at EC.
     
  4. EdSure

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    Thank you for your responses. I’ve been focused on the later in life forums and have found the stories of others comforting to know there can be a positive outcome in the end. It’s been very bumpy for me but I will remain optimistic. Thanks everyone.