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  1. So Ph

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    Hi I'm Soph and I'm new here. I came here because I'm currently questioning my sexuality and I'm too scared to tell someone about it. I have a weak opinion and tend to get carried out by others' thoughts, but I'm trying to change it, last time I told someone about the subject they told me it's just a phase and now I'm truly confused. But hopefully I can find some answers here. Nice to meet you all! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Soph
    Welcome to ec you have come to the right place just say what you thinking and fill we have all been there questioning our sexuality don' rush it it will come to you trust your instincts

    And once again welcome
     
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    Thank you, this really seems like a nice site. Thanks for the advice, I'll try not to rush it. :slight_smile:
    I just posted my question on the Sexual Orientation Forum in case you want to see it. Thanks for the advice again! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome Soph!

    I am up North so you and I are practically neighbours! lol :grinning:

    I have found EC very helpful and I hope you do too!
     
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    I'l have a look
     
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    LOL I live in the south, near Cork. :grin: Thank you!
     
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    Hi :grin: Nice to meet you and welcome to EC!
     
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    Nice to meet you too and thanks! :grin:
     
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    It's nice to meet you, Soph. I am fairly new here too but so far I have found that this is a wonderful place. Funny enough, my name is Sofie! I am demipansexual and my icon thing is the flag for that. I was questioning for 2 years, and it was driving me up the wall if I'm being completely honest. I hope you find this place as welcoming as I have
     
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    Wow! My actual name is Sofia btw, I just like to be called Soph. lol! Sorry, but what does demipansexual mean? As you can see by my profile I'm questioning and honestly it can be quite frustrating at times. Thanks and nice to meet you! :grin:
     
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    It's pretty confusing. Basically, I'm pansexual but I need to establish a strong emotional connection before I feel any sort of sexual attraction. I understand how frustrating it is to be questioning, especially for a long period of time. Demi means half, and I am half asexual and half pansexual. There's an image that explains it pretty well, along with some others in the asexual spectrum. Here it is:
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    Hi So Ph! We're Gudetama buddies! I just wanted to say you made the right decision to join this community, it's full of helpful advice and insight. I've only been here for a few days, and I already feel a lot better about my situation and stronger in who I am. Just because you are still questioning your sexuality does not mean you are going through a phase. It just means you're not quite sure about who you are. And ultimately, you will be the one to figure out your true self, not other people. So make sure to believe in yourself, to be honest about who you are, and to love what you find. Any who, it's nice to meet you! :slight_smile:
     
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    Gudetama buddies! Thank you for the kind words, it makes me happy reading that there are people that actually understand my thoughts and what I'm going through. It is indeed very nice to meet you! :grin:
     
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    Ohhh now I get it! That donut explanation makes it quite easy to understand, and it's very original! :slight_smile:
     
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    This is my absolute favourite post. That's spot on demisexuality, simply explained. SO AMAZING.
     
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    Ikr? It makes it really easy to understand. I also love donuts so maybe it has to do with it. XD
     
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    Haha, every body looves donuts

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    That image just made my day ten times better. :'D
     
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    haha glad it made u happy :blush:
     
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    My catchphrase might as well be 'haha', I say that a lot :shrug:
     
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