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Hi mom Hi dad i'm Gay ! whats your parents reaction ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Frederik, Mar 5, 2021.

  1. Frederik

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    1) honey every decision you make we so proud of you

    2) shotgun

    3) they will crying and cuddle you , honey we knew it long time ago

    4) silence and leaving room

    5) get the f/k out of my home and never come back here again
     
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    It was 5. Also, I wish that I had cut off contact with every person that I am related to on that day.
     
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    I lost my dad many years ago and my mom passed last June. They never knew...I wish they had known.
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Actually I don't think any of those selections would be right, I think they would be pretty chill and accepting of it. Other family members would be a five for sure, but I didn't live with them so just would be disowned.
     
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    i honestly cant say either cause i not been with either man or woman im 50yo virgin i guess lol kind of sad maybe thats why i feel so lonely and im now curious about lbgt
     
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    Despite my mum mentioning my future spouse could be male or female ( when you have a boyfriend or girlfriend) and she flat out asked if I was gay and I said no. When I came out to her she was kind of quiet and has a problem with the fact I prefer lesbian fiction to straight fiction. She says it doesn’t have to define my life but does she not understand that I don’t want to come across a straight sex scene. I was warned by my aunt not to tell my dad. I don’t think he would be cool with it, he used to refer to our old Taoiseach as ‘the gay Indian’.
     
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    4 for my mother
    5 for my father
     
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    Oh my, I'm so sorry.
     
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    Practically a nice way of saying, "No, shit."
     
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    I can't really know until I tell them, but I think they'd probably pray for me. My father is unpredictable though. He could make an extreme irrational decision. That's why I decided to come out when I'm completely independent of them.
     
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    My Mom was fine with me coming out as bisexual. I didn’t come out until late in life. Even if I’d come out back when I was young I know it would have been fine, which would have been waaay more advanced than the rest of society. I think my parents would have wanted me to have counseling support back then (not conversion!), as I remember (many many decades ago) my Mom mentioning that if I wanted counseling she knew some who were up-to-date (this was back right after gay was removed as a mental illness, so some might have been stuck in the old ways). I asked my Mom if she had thought I wasn’t straight back then, but it was too far back for her to have clear memories.