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Hi I’m a newbie and have no idea of what I’m doing

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  1. Keekers

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    My names Kaia and I live in Canada. I’m only 14 and don’t really know what I’m doing sooo kinda just need some help.
     
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    Welcome to EC. :slight_smile:

    It’s a really friendly place. Have a look around the forum, read about other people’s experience, and when you’re ready, post your own.
     
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    Thanks for the reply. Kinda new to this whole thing and just looking for some people who can help me out
     
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    What do you need helping out with? Once you've had a bit of a read around and got a handle on what is where, a good idea would be to start threads asking for whatever you need help with. People will try to help or answer where they can.
     
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    Thanks. It’s mostly the fact that I am discovering my sexuality and am trying to learn how to accept myself. I don’t know many other gay/bi people so I don’t have anybody to really talk to about anything like this.
     
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    Oh, yeah, that can be a bit tough for some people it seems.

    I'm Bi and never had any problem with it personally. Always found that I like some guys and thought nothing of it other than "oh, that's interesting" till i felt ready to do something about it, and when that time came......i moved to a big city!

    But for some there's issues in accepting it in themselves cos they're part of a religious community, family is hard-core right-wing, or a raft of reasons.
     
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    Welcome to EC!
     
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    Welcome to EC, Kaia.

    Learning to accept and embrace your sexuality can take time, and it seems to be an ongoing process for many. Try not to stress too much and be patient with yourself. You'll get there. :slight_smile:

    In the meantime, I'm sure you'll find a lot of people to relate to, who can maybe help you through the process. ^^
     
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    Thanks for the reply. I am really happy that I found a easy community that I can share my thoughts with
     
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    Hey welcome to EC.
     
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    omg im clueless too! 13 and watching other girls at my middle school saying "iM bIsExUaL" when they totally arent and its like you dont understandddddd