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Hi Everyone, I'm new here

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by volleyball girl, Feb 12, 2014.

  1. volleyball girl

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    Yea. I admire my mom. Im glad I got some great qualities from her. So, have you tried maybe reaching out to an lgbt community where u live? or is that too much of a step so far? hehe
     
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    its way to hard to get. i also am not out in person
     
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    oh gotcha. Understandable. Hey, ur here right? That's starting somewhere :slight_smile: My gf says i might be addicted to this site lol. But its because it's nice to be able to talk to others about our issues without the fear of being judged. So I definitely think ur taking a great step. And little by little, you'll find someone whom deserves you and respects you for who you are :slight_smile:
     
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    i am out on like 5 or 6 websites :slight_smile:
     
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    Nice. Are they all lgbt websites? If not, how do the people treat u there?
     
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    1 is for trans people and another is for bloggers but they are all accepting
     
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    That's good :slight_smile: Hey, it took me years to even find someone. But it was worth it. If there's one thing I have learned, it's that you have to be patient. No matter how much it may suck at the moment.
     
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    i have waited but im giving up on love
     
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    Don't give up just yet. It took me 22 years lol. Don't worry, you'll find someone :slight_smile: Who knows, maybe you'll find someone on one of these websites hehe. You're only 17. still got your whole life ahead of ya :slight_smile:
     
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    yes but I am very undesirable when it comes to dating
     
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    no one wants a relationship with me. to most people I am to clingly and annyoying
     
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    Well, everyone has their preferences right? Trust me, someone out there will want you. And they will fall hardcore in love with you. You just gotta wait. I used to think the same thing. That no one would want to be with me (for other reasons). But i found someone eventually. And online of all places. And believe it or not, some people like being with others who are clingy. Its not a bad thing. Just gotta find the right one :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi, i'm new here too, I hope you like it on here so far :icon_bigg
     
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    Hehe Hey shelbigail :slight_smile: Yea, so far I absolutely love it. It's nice to meet you :smilewave
     
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    okay maybe maybe not. i have had a girl fall for me then she stopped talking to me and i had a gf before that and we only lasted 4 days
     
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    It's a start right? Some people are just not worth it probably. Who knows what you got out of lol. Trust me, it may seem annoying or stupid right now, but just give it some time. You'll find someone. guaranteed :slight_smile:

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    And I'm not saying this cuz I have someone right now. Im saying it because i was alone all my life (22 yrs) until I met my gf. I know how much it sucks. I also know how glad I am that i just waited for the right one
     
  18. laurenc

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    okay but its hard when you dont have many friends and no single girls want to be friends with you
     
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    I agree. I don't know wat ur going through. I've just been in some similar situations. That's all. Are you a senior? Soon it'll be time to graduate and then maybe you can go to college. Things will take a 180 there for sure. You'll feel more free. And I'm sure you'll meet a lot of cool people who will want to be ur friends.
     
  20. laurenc

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    jr. i failed a grade