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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Maryalirez, Oct 20, 2020.

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How should i understand that what i am?

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  1. Maryalirez

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    Hi im new here.
    I think i need to talk to s.o that they are transgender.
    Recently (i mean since 1 year) ive been asking myself ab my gender and my sexuality.
     
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    Welcome to EC

    No one can tell you who you are. People can help you understand things. There is a sub forum for gender issues. If I can help I will but in the end you have to determine who you really are and how you need to live.
     
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    Idk anything at all and bc of this i have depression.
    I need s.o to help me
     
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    what is "s.o" I am old and only know english
     
  5. LostInDaydreams

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    Hi @Maryalirez and welcome to EC.

    As @QuietPeace suggested, the Gender Identity & Expression sub forum would be a good place to start. You could read some of the threads that are already there to see if you can relate, or start your own thread to explain a bit more about how you’re feeling.
     
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    I meant someone.
    I do apologize, my english isnt very well
     
  7. Maryalirez

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    Where can i find the things you said?
    Thank you for your answer.
     
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    The sub forum is here.
     
  9. Maryalirez

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    Thank you very much:hugging:
     
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    You are welcome. :slight_smile:

    If you have any other questions, just let me or another staff member know.
     
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    There is a common language here: love. It can be difficult to talk about feelings with language barrier...but there are plenty of translation sites to help with that. No translation is needed for love—that is much harder to find. You are here now, you are welcomed and directed to the best place for you! Yeah! We can help you on your journey, let us know what we can do ((momhugs))
     
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    *Crying*
    I dont know how to say thank you:"♡
     
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    You just did. I am here if you just want to chat.
    ((momhugs))
     
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    I think that only you can decide your gender, but maybe you would like to research genders and see what fits you. You can be binary or non-binary. You can lean towards one side but not be completely on that side. You can be gender fluid. You can be agender. You can have pronouns and you don't have to have pronouns. What matters most is that you find something that makes you feel comfortable in your own skin. Love you, you are a beautiful human being, and no matter what you choose or don't choose, you are valid no matter what <3