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Hetero vs. gay kissing

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Fuzzy, Jul 27, 2020.

  1. Fuzzy

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    Did any of you think you didn't like kissing when kissing hetero and did that change once you got with the same sex?
     
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    I’ve always loved kissing but it went to a different level when I kissed a man...wow
     
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    I agree with Joolz66. I liked kissing when I was with men, but found it to be so much better when I kissed a woman. I was like ... OMG why have I waited this long to do this?? lol
     
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    Kissing a man seems natural and wow
     
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    No comparison men hands down, women not even close.
     
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    I prefer gay kissing than hetero kissing for myself when I kiss someone. But when I watch movies I like hetero kissing than gay kissing.
    I don't know what the reasons but I enjoy it both in different ways.
     
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    Kissing a man or a woman are both just different, but pleasurable in their own way. I never thought i would want to kiss another man until the last man I was with and it just happened and I loved it. Blew me away in fact because it was also the first time it was anything more tome than being sexual with a man. It was sensual, romantic and loving. That first kiss when I could feel the slightest stubble around his lips, the different way his tongue found and danced with my own was incredible and made me realize that i didn't just sex with another man. I want the whole enchilada of loving and kissing and touching, of holding one another as my lover.
     
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    (Cis-gendered man here.) What a good question. For me, kissing is one of the absolute ultimate expressions of love and closeness. Of the men (and women) in my life, their ability to kiss is vital. I was meeting a man for the first time once, and he kissed with such ferocious intensity I felt bruised. That was not only the first, but the last time I saw him. Given that my sexuality has been in a sort of state of flux for years, I can't say that I haven't necessarily enjoyed kissing women. However! I do feel that in kissing another man that there's no pretense, we are truly equals in the act. The current man in my life is a fabulous kisser, although our opportunities are limited with the current lockdown - and which will be even more severe as of this week. However, we are playing the long game here.
     
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    While I personally have stronger feelings from kissing men then I ever did women. Some men eat your face when they are kissing you. Hahaha!
     
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    There is an intensity and energy to kissing someone of the same sex to whom you are deeply attracted. There can be no comparison to kissing someone who you really are not physically or emotionally connected to. In effect, you are just going through the motions with them and that's not fair on either party really.
     
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