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Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by JakeSteven, Oct 3, 2013.

  1. JakeSteven

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    Lets call this person x. I believe that x has a crash on me. I never though I be say this. How do I tell him I just want a friendship. I feel bad, I was like hell yeah I finally meet a lbgq memember and I noticw that he was flirting with me.

    Idk why but black men are a turn father. Also 17 and down is a turn off!
     
  2. Momosboy

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    Maybe it's just me, but... what?
     
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    So let me see if I got this right...

    This guy has a crush on you, you think. You at first felt good at meeting another lgbt person but aren't into guys under 17 or into black guys, so want to know how to let him down without hurting his feelings?
     
  4. Night

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    If so, you say "I'm not interested in anything more than friendship. Sorry."
     
  5. JakeSteven

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    Sorry my english suck. okay to summarize, X is pretty much not my type. How do I tell him I'm not into him but at the same time keeping a friend.?

    ---------- Post added 3rd Oct 2013 at 06:18 PM ----------

    Thank you guys lol
     
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    What you need to do is literally friendzone him :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:. No shame in doing that though; when he does something nice for you, just say he's a great friend. Just be sure to say it before he does anything overly romantic in order to get you.