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Help me out please.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Danielw, Nov 13, 2020.

  1. Danielw

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    I know this is going to sound dumb to people. But I’m struggling to come to terms myself. I’m straight but have been curious for a long time about gay sex. So much I’ve created a ###### account and had a few meets. I have interest in both males and females but I can’t see males romantically only females. But when it comes to the term sex. I enjoy being fucked more than fucking a girl and it’s like I can only see men for sex. Please help I don’t know what to do.
     
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  2. EleanorHunter

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    It's not dumb at all! Figuring out your sexuality is, generally, super confusing no matter what stage you're at in life. Ultimately it's up to you as to how you want to identify and what feels good/right to you. But it's not a race or an emergency, and you can take the time to find out what you really want.

    While I definitely can't say definitively what your orientation is, I'd imagine it's somewhere between straight and bi. It's entirely possible to still be straight but enjoy penetrative sex as a male. That's why pegging is a thing, after all. It's also possible that you might have a romantic orientation that's different than your sexual one; I've met a couple of people who identified as heteroromantic but bisexual.

    Hopefully I didn't make things more confusing for you, I just want to emphasize that you're experiencing something that is totally normal. There's nothing wrong with experimenting and finding what you like.
     
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  3. sighs

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    You could be heteroromantic but queer sexual (homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, etc.) It’s perfectly fine and valid to have differing romantic and sexual orientations.
     
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  4. Danielw

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    Thank you. That’s helped a lot
     
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    No label you are who you are Daniel. You enjoy what you like. If you want male company fine. Tomorrow you want female company fine. If you find a female that enjoys pegging all the better. Life is short do what you like and enjoy.
     
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