I need help. I'm a trans man in a relationship with a cis man. He has more experience than me, but promised he had been tested so we didnt worry about condoms. We never worried about pregnancy since my dysphoria makes anal the only sex I'm comfortable with, he said he had been tested as negative so it wasnt a thought. Apparently he got tested two weeks ago and was told he is HIV positive. Hes 17, I'm 16. I'm not out to my family and they don't know we are dating. I don't know where to get tested or how without family finding out. I'm very scared and angry. I need help, how do I get tested without my family finding out? He had been distant from me till he told me that he tested positive and I'm terrified I will too.