so i told some of my friends that i was gender-fluid. a little while later i realize that i'm probably not. my gender confuses me but i identify as a girl. how do i un-come out to them? i love them, but it embarrasses me to think about how i was wrong. i know that i am asexual but that is not a big deal to me, i don't really care who knows. but yeah, i need help. so how do i un-come out? tell them i was wrong? i can't bear thinking about it but i can't leave them thinking i'm gender-fluid. when i embarrass myself badly, like this situation for instance, i tend to try to cut myself off with those who know about it, but i can't now because i love these friends so much. if it were my family, i wouldn't care and they wouldn't either. but that's not the case.
Welcome to EC! If it feels easier you could tell them that you don't feel the label of genderfluid is correct anymore, but that you're still questioning your gender. That way it leaves the door open to changing your label in the future without forcing yourself back into the cis box in the meantime.
If they were accepting when they thought you were genderfluid, then I would hope they'd be accepting if you tell them you're not. Maybe tell them that you're not really sure what you are and that you're still trying to figure things out.