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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by bicubed, Oct 9, 2018.

  1. bicubed

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    Hey y'all,
    22 yo canadian here, I've been questioning my sexuality since I was 16 or so but it's accelerated in the past year since I broke up with a long-term boyfriend and moved away from home. I'm probably bi (I lack experience...) but I'm having a hard time coming to terms with it. I was really good at ignoring and diminishing just how much I was attracted to women in the past - trying to be honest with myself now. It's really hard, I think I feel pretty ashamed about it (especially if I've been out drinking or if I'm in a bad mood). I've told my best friend but I have a really hard time talking with her about my sexuality even though we talk about literally everything else... I hope talking to some folks with similar experiences on here will help.
     
  2. Rade

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    A big welcometo you.....
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    Warm regards Rade
     
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    Hi. I know what you mean. I have only had 1 serious relationship with a man. After that I started questioning more. Im not out but this place has been a great place to talk about things or even just have a forum to meet similar people.
     
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    Glad to know I'm not alone! nice to meet ya
     
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    bicubed.....Hello and a very big welcome to empty closets! There is a forum here on EC that you should take a look at. It's titled "Sexual Orientation". Check it out!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Nice to meet you too. And no not alone. In the less then 2 weeks I've been her I realized that there are a lot of questioning and closeted kids (and adults)
     
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    Hey there! Welcome to EC. We are happy to have you. I hope you find it as helpful as I did.