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Hello, questioning and have questions

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Wumni, May 16, 2018 at 7:24 PM.

  1. Wumni

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    Am just questioning, never been really open about stuff like this, so thought I would try and see if I could get answers and support here. How do u know for sure if you're gay? Is harder to know when u still like guys? Do u need to try with girls to know for sure? If ur bi is it just easier to chose to be with guys (exclusively ) bc of family and societal pressures? Should I just ignore these feeling bc I do like guys and am not forcing myself to be something am not?
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    Wumni.....Hello and welcome to empty closets. This is a great place with lot of good people and now there is one more! Hey...there is a forum here on empty closets called "Sexual Orientation". If you go there you'll find a lot of people who can help you out with your questions and concerns....give it a try! Glad that you have found us!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Welcome. Many of us are going through the same things, and have the same questions
     
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    Hey. As an out bisexual I can tell you that you should definitely entertain these thoughts and feelings or else they will manifest into something negative if kept inside. Its so important to talk about these things. My suggestion is going to therapy, talking to a trusted friend or family member!