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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Lovri, Oct 17, 2020 at 10:10 AM.

  1. Lovri

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    Hi I just joined the site today. I am a male gay, from central europe searching for people to talk with about this stuff.
     
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    Hello and welcome to Empty Closets! Feel free to get in touch with me or any of the other staff members if you need any help. :slight_smile:

    Why don't you tell us something about yourself? What are your hobbies and interests?
     
  3. Lovri

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    I like reading books/manga( Jojo part 8 = <3), watching movies/anime, videogames, sports.

    I go to Floorball practice twice a week and this monday I get my new stick . I enyoy listening to music very much, I like pop and edm the most. I have a electronic piano which I tried to learn but gave up for now....

    I am the type of person who can't sing but loves to sing (when alone lol).

    I have 2 male best friends and they don't know yet. I came out to one person: my sister. At the time I was really anxious and fed up and I knew I had to come out. When I did it felt so refreshing and I felt so much better. That led me to make my wish true: I got a earring. Right now I am feeling strong about my sexuality, but there are still a lot more insecurities inside me.

    For my coming out idk when, but I know that I will come out to my parents only when I have a boyfriend. I am worried if I will be able to find someone who likes me .. in such a small country...

    Lastly I have a question: I have a really girly personality, so when I was being fed about my orientation I also thought about me just being a girl, and that I am trying to get away with saying I am gay. Is being girly normal for gay men? Is that just a personality trait?
     
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    Hi there and welcome to EC. It would be worthwhile to read some of the threads and posts in the different sub forums on sexual orientation. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome and congratulations on taking first step into the rest of your life! This site is tailor made for you—the abundance of resources AND people will certainly help you. I am not in a group who can give you practical advice, but honey you have my support. I grew up and knew plenty who would have benefited from just a loving hug. I likely will never meet you, but if you need a shoulder—I’ve got two.
    ((momhugs))
     
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    That is so sweet . Thank you !
     
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    Hello, welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
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