Hi I just joined the site today. I am a male gay, from central europe searching for people to talk with about this stuff.
Hello and welcome to Empty Closets! Feel free to get in touch with me or any of the other staff members if you need any help. Why don't you tell us something about yourself? What are your hobbies and interests?
I like reading books/manga( Jojo part 8 = <3), watching movies/anime, videogames, sports. I go to Floorball practice twice a week and this monday I get my new stick . I enyoy listening to music very much, I like pop and edm the most. I have a electronic piano which I tried to learn but gave up for now.... I am the type of person who can't sing but loves to sing (when alone lol). I have 2 male best friends and they don't know yet. I came out to one person: my sister. At the time I was really anxious and fed up and I knew I had to come out. When I did it felt so refreshing and I felt so much better. That led me to make my wish true: I got a earring. Right now I am feeling strong about my sexuality, but there are still a lot more insecurities inside me. For my coming out idk when, but I know that I will come out to my parents only when I have a boyfriend. I am worried if I will be able to find someone who likes me .. in such a small country... Lastly I have a question: I have a really girly personality, so when I was being fed about my orientation I also thought about me just being a girl, and that I am trying to get away with saying I am gay. Is being girly normal for gay men? Is that just a personality trait?
Hi there and welcome to EC. It would be worthwhile to read some of the threads and posts in the different sub forums on sexual orientation.
Welcome and congratulations on taking first step into the rest of your life! This site is tailor made for you—the abundance of resources AND people will certainly help you. I am not in a group who can give you practical advice, but honey you have my support. I grew up and knew plenty who would have benefited from just a loving hug. I likely will never meet you, but if you need a shoulder—I’ve got two. ((momhugs))
