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Hello All...MTF

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by freemef, May 30, 2020.

  1. freemef

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    Hello All, 28 year old here. I decided to join this site because even though I’ve known my whole life, I made the concrete decision to become a woman on May 28. MTF. I have not told a soul yet but in my mind I’m so relieved to talk about myself with female pronouns. I’m telling my therapist on Monday, and made an appointment with another therapist for the following day that specializes in this topic.

    I don’t know when or how to tell my family (parents and brother). I’ve been living as a gay man for 12 years but it’s not me. They did come around mostly to me being so though in a pretty good amount of time. Part of me wants to get it over with but I’m terrified.

    I’m looking to make some connections on here with others like me or allies.
     
  2. LostInDaydreams

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    Welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
  3. Revive

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    Hi! Welcome to EC. We're always here to talk with you about probelms you come across, or just anything else.
     
  4. solarcat

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    Hi there! Don't worry, there are definitely people who are/ were where you are.
     
  5. La Corbeau

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