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Height of your BF/GF

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BelleLey, Oct 29, 2016.

  1. TheGreyBetween

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    I'm 5'4" on a good day, and my boyfriend is 6'4". My ex-husband was 6'3". Most of the men I've been attracted to have been taller than me, but also the women I've been attracted to have mostly been taller. I'm 5'4" after all. But I've dated or wanted to date people who were shorter than me, too. I would say I lean taller, but wouldn't mind dating someone smaller.
     
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    I would prefer to date a guy taller than me, but I wouldn't care either way.
     
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    I am 5'1".
    I always assumed I'd be the short one in the relationship, considering how short I am...

    However, my girlfriend is like, the same height as I am, either that or slightly shorter than I am.

    Height doesn't really matter at all to me though.
     
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    Ive only been with people a fair bit taller than me, but i think thats more coincidence than preference.

    I am 5'3" and my current boyfriend is 6'2".
     
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    I've never actually dated anyone for real but I'd rather date a guy that's quite a bit taller than me. :slight_smile:
     
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    It doesn't really matter to me. Height is irrelevant to my level of attraction.
     
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    I'm 6'1" and my bf is 5'9". That said, I've also dated a guy who was taller than me (not by much but he had 2" on me). I kinda prefer a shorter man but only because I like being the big spoon and they fit better lol. It never has been nor will it ever be a deciding factor tho.
     
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    Both Leslie and I are 5'10"... not sure if it matters to much to me.
     
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    Shorter than me by an inch. She's 5'1". I though I always perfected the tall, confident and romantics, but shorties are goodies too!
     
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    I'm 6' even and I am usually attracted to guys that are shorter than me (5'5" to 5'8") but oddly the guy I like is slightly taller than me, he's at most 6'1". I usually don't even look at guys my height and up, they kind of turn me off but on him it's a complete turn on.
     
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    It doesn't matter to me. Ideally, they would be around my height, but it's nothing that would ever be an obstacle.
     
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    My ideal would be for a girl to be a similar sort of height as me. I'm about 5 foot 8-9 so that's fairly tall but not too difficult. I've never considered the idea of a girl being significantly taller than me tbh... I also sort of want to be the protector and big spoon so I dunno if that would work. It seems unlikely anyway. Im just not up for anyone that makes me feel like I giant. It would just become comical.

    As for guys - taller. I don't think I've ever met a girl who wants to date a guy shorter than her. About the same height is okay if you never wear heels like me.
     
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    I'm about 5'8" and my girlfriend is about 5'4"
     
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    All the boys are so tall, me I'm 5'5 so few men are shorter than me, very few men. But I like tall boys anyway because they bring out the submissive, which pretty much means most boys make me feel submissive.
     
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    I'm 6'3" (around 190 cm) and I personally don't have a particular height requirement. As for people that I've been attracted to, they tend to be quite a bit shorter than me or within a couple of inches of me.
     
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    I'm 5'8, so most guys are taller than me. The guys I tend to crush on are around my height or slightly taller (5'9-5'10)
     
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    I'm 5'7" (but 5'7½" on a good morning! That counts, right? :lol:slight_smile: and I don't really have a height preference. The national average for women is 5'6" in Finland, so I am most likely to find someone my own height, but I haven't really put much thought into it. I wouldn't mind dating someone really short or really tall. As long as she is happy with her height, I am too. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm 5'1", so I always assumed I would be the short one in the relationship.
    I was wrong... My girlfriend is the exact same height as me, if not like a teensy tiny bit shorter.
     
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    I'm 6'3, so most of the people I've been attracted to are shorter than me, because we're all young and shit.

    My boyfriend is 5'5. I have to pick him up to kiss him. Thankfully, he's also around sixty pounds lighter (he's 108 lbs, I'm 170), so it's not difficult.
     
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    I don't really care, when it comes right down to it and I've always been the tall one in the relationship (6'3") but I do have macrophilia and prefer tall people in general.

    But it isn't a deal breaker by any means. I had a huge crush on this guy at my apartment complex and I had to be nearly a foot taller than him. :love: