have you heard the stereotype bisexual women are hot lesbians are ugly

Heard it at least once, but it seems really rare to hear it nowadays. Honestly, there are so many stereotypes, it's hard to keep track

 

I feel awful but not only have I heard them, I used to believe them. Please understand that this was a dark time in my life when I was terrified of being who I am today so I would try to hide my feelings from myself by masking them with homophobia.

I still punish myself for those years and they are stuck with me no matter what however I can shed some light on the subject. Men think the idea of two women having sex is hot, they see Bisexual women as lesbians that they can join in with. As for the ugly lesbian stereotype I havent got a clue where that came from, I can guess that it is simply down to judging everyone by the way a few people act e.g the butch lesbian and the feminine gay guy.

 

That's absolutely not true at all.