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Have you ever had a crush on a straight person?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Wolfwing, Nov 25, 2016.

  1. PotatoPotato

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    The only one I ever had is my current boyfriend and he is... a special snowflake.

    I did have some crushes in the past on people who I never figured out of if they where gay or straight; they didn't last long enough for me to pursue so I guess you can count those out.

    I take I am one of the lucky few that hasn't really had a serious crush turn out straight?
    I did have the situation other way around a few times; where people turned out to have a crush on me but those people where girls.
     
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    I remember back in college, I always get attracted to a good looking men which I discovered they are gay. Such a disappointment!LOL
     
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    Yes I have crushes on straight guys all the time.
     
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    It has happened twice in my life. Two very different people. At the time one was not married,and I thought something would come of it (it didn't). The other time the other person was married. And I really fell for that person. Major crush. It didn't work out either.
     
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    It's happened at least twice. Once was with a guy I worked with and I fell hard for him. He was kind and we talked about just about anything. It was getting difficult for me to work with him and then he got a job somewhere else, so after a period of the blues I got over it and moved on. The second time was with a classmate.
     
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    Yep. However, she might not be straight.. she’s not sure.
     
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    I swear every person I have a crush on is straight!
     
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    Well, technically yes, since I've had several crushes on straight women. Given the websight I'm on, that kind of feals like cheeting, so I won't count them. There was one time when I got kind of excited because I thought one of my guy friends wasn't straight. Turns out he was, and I was kind of disapointed. I don't think I really had a crush on him though, so I guess that doesn't count either. Guess my answer is no then, though I'm sure it will happen with time.
     
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    Oh, like 3-4 times, actually. I don’t know if it’s that i have bad luck or what, but almost every crush I’ve had, has been straight. It’s hard to tell though! The struggle is real.
     
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    Yes, the first person I came out to was my straight friend that I had a crush on. Although, I did not know her sexuality at the time because we had several LGBT friends, she hadn't dated a guy the few years that we had known each other, but she also hadn't dated a girl either. We went out one night and I came out to her when she took me home. Thankfully she's cool with it and it didn't change our friendship at all. Now, I don't have romantic feelings for her, but love her to death as an awesome friend!!
     
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    Yes. Both men and women. For the men, it was hard because I knew they'd never accept, but I was able to move along. For the women, that was so much easier to bring up and go from there. I'm not saying bisexuality is inherently better, just that sometimes, your straight crushes actually can work when you are.
     
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    as a kid I had a crush on the young Elvis
     
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    Yes. Mostly as a kid and young teenager when I didn't realise what a crush was. then I had a giant crush on someone realized what it was an acknowledged all the other crushes I'd had and figured out I'm gay.
     
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    straight - ish?? thought she was straight until she kissed me.. than dropped me ...
     
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    Trust me, it isn't fun.

    Most of the people I crush on end up being straight, on occasion I've crushed on people who aren't, but they were in a relationship already.
     
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    Well, I thought I did once. Actually thought he was the first inkling of my sexuality. Then he came out as bi this week. Go figure.
     
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    Never a serious crush, but I find that I am physically attracted to more straight women on average. It could be because they're more common though.
     
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    twice, maybe three times. it sucked horribly
     
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    Unfortunately,:smirk:I had one serious crush on my senior. :pensive:I thought she was straight so I never made a move. And I bet she never knew I am a lesbian because I am kinda femme. later :hushed: Fortunately, I found out that she was not.:grimacing: :grimacing: But you know what? No Yay , according to fb update at that time, Unfortunately, she had a girlfriend! :weary:Damn!!! So I had to step back. Soon Should I say Fortunately , she broke up with her girlfriend...yay..:man_dancing::smiley::grinning: But but Damn again!!!! :sweat: Unfortunately , she moved to another country :sob: And then I still think about her sometimes :smirk:. I am also now planning to move to that same country actually (not because of her,not intentionally, it is just for my profession) You think I will have a chance ? :wink:..........Nope..... Unfortunately , lastly I heard she is now engaged to a man:tired_face:... so I am not sure if she is straight or bi or whatever. Hopefully :bow:and Fortunately , i wish I won’t have more crush on her if I have to see her again.:sweat_smile: Oh my luck:face_palm:
     
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    I currently have.

    but then, he called me beautiful more than once, then I said I was special, nicknamed me "lil green boi" and said I make him wish he was gay.

    so yeah, here it is. I'm dying over there.