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Have you ever had a crush on a straight person?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Wolfwing, Nov 26, 2016.

  1. Lynz

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    Thanks! She's off her nut.... and im so obsessed :grin:
     
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    Thats so great
    I'm so happy for you!
     
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    Thanksssss.

    P.S. Las Vegas?! So cool!
     
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    Yeah, haha
    People think that we all have a jolly good time gambling and partying and looking at the strip but liek
    I just sit in my house all day like the antisocial trash I am XD
     
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    Yes I was so wrong about my last crush ;-; *wipes tears* I'm over it though
     
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    yeah, quite recently.
    I can live with it, though.
     
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    What kind of question is this? This happens, like, every day.
     
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    Yes, I have had crushes on several straight guys but the thing is that I kept my boundaries in just keeping it as a crush and never acting upon them due to the fact of them being straight and to me...there is no reason to put myself through an unnecessary situation that could put my life in turmoil. If I am attracted to a straight guy, I've always recognized the fact that they are straight with respect and not stepping beyond a friendship. There have been straight guys whom I have established friendships with and once I reveal to them that I am a gay man, they would make passes at me and not the other way around and some of them I did have sex with. However, in my personal opinion, if a "straight" guy pursues me for sex, then I do not acknowledge them as being straight but bisexual. Just my personal opinion.
     
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    Yes, one specially took a heavy emotional toll on me. It's over now (actually more than a year ago) and at least I learned a lot from it. He will always have a place in my heart.
     
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    I like this guy at work, but he's straight so he is off limits to me. He is one of the few people that I became completely comfortable with in the shortest amount of time.
     
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    Yes all my crushes have been straight girls. There are deep and intense.
     
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    Yes, straight girls unfortunately :frowning2: and straight boys but that's not a problem most of the time :slight_smile: .
     
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    Yep, more than once:lol:
     
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    So far I'm two for two in that department. I really fell for a dude on the basketball team last year, and that just ended in disaster.

    Now, I have a crush on this dude I met and became good friends with. He knows because he was talking about rooming with me next year in our dormitory and I thought it was only fair for him to know that. He took it really well and is still my friend, but with how things went last year, I cannot help but to fear exactly how things are going to end. I can't help this nagging feeling that sooner or later he is going to turn his back on me because he feels uncomfortable.
     
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    Yes... my luck with sexuality sucks...
    I have a crush on a guy.... but he's straight...
    And I have a crush on a girl... but she's a lesbian....
    Can't I just like bonk you two together and switch your sexualities or something? :roflmao:

    I know that's not how it works, but wouldn't it be amazing if it did?
     
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    I had a crush on a straight girl. At least, I thought she was straight. By the time she'd come out of the closet, I was already over her. Now, I have a crush on no-one and haven't for about a year. Is that strange?
     
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    Yeah I had crushes on a few straight girls. It mainly happened in the early days when I wasn't aware I was bi. It doesn't happen much these days
     
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    Heck yeah! I think almost all of the girls I've crushed on were straight, except 1, but I found out she was bi AFTER I got over her.
     
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    Feels like when I still thought I was straight, I always ended up liking guys who turned out to be gay and now that I realise I'm not straight I tend to like girls who are into guys. WHY? :grin: