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Have you been accused of being gay?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by mes1995, Jul 10, 2012.

  1. looking for me

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    growing up it was thrown at me as a put down/ bullying thing. my STBX used to accuse me of being gay, having affairs (both with men and women) when she wanted to controll me and/or the conversation. Heck, i didn't even let myself think about either sex at those points in my marriage and didn't come out to myself till 8 months after we split due to her repeated distructive behaviours that endangered my son.
     
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    when ever they say "you gay or something"as a joke ect.. i always reply with something over the top like "i fucking love dick" little do they know i actually do XD
     
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    I'm out and have been openly out since I was 17. I used to get accused of it all the time because I didn't act like a "normal" guy did. I was shy, quiet, and my voice was soft so people would always call me things like "faggot" or "fruit" and whatnot .When I finally understood my attraction for guys, I decided to not hide and just be open. I got tired of people asking or automatically assuming so that's one of the reasons why I decided to be out so people could just shut up about it. lol
     
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    As an out bisexual i am accused of being gay a lot
     
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    I was often asked if I was gay and told I was gay for simply listening to Elton John and Culture Club. You just couldn't enjoy an artist who was gay if you weren't gay back in the 80's. Glad we're past that rubbish.
     
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    No, but I was accused of being a witch.
     
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    Then it's a good job you weren't born in the Middle Ages!
     
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    Yes, and it's just because of how I look. Most people think I'm either a butch lesbian or a gay guy, when they see me for the first time.
     
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    Have you ever turned anyone into a newt?
     
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    Almost everyone suspected before I came out. They even suspected it before I had any idea myself.
     
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    Who hasn't?
     
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    Fortunately not, I don't know how I would react to that
     
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    I am butch. At my old school (very conservative all-girls school), people gossiped a lot. Anyone who was the slightest bit different was gossiped about. Many times, they asked me about my sexual orientation and I said I was straight. They didn't buy it.