I am happily married (most of the time) to my first love (a straight man). I just came out to him that I’m bisexual. It has taken me a long time to come to terms with this aspect of my sexuality. He wasn’t really shocked. I feel relieved and excited to be finally accepting this part of me. But I’m also feeling like maybe I’ve missed out. I did kiss my best friend when I was in high school and it was fantastic. Would’ve loved to do more but we both had boyfriends at the time. That’s as far as my experiences took me with women. My husband is supportive and actually suggested that if I need some new experiences, he is fine with that. But I just can’t help but be concerned that all of this will change our relationship.